“be more feminine”
“Oh you just need to be more feminine / work on your femininity” “You’re too much in your masculine”
…please no more of that bullshit!
That just leaves women feeling bad about themselves, that they are not enough and thinking there’s yet another standard they need to meet!
Embodying the feminine is an inner gesture of surrender not something that can be worked at or achieved.
You don’t need to be more feminine, work on your femininity…nothing like that.
The essence of embodying the feminine is deep relaxation into what already is. All the fruits and beauty of the feminine comes from relaxing into your already feminine nature.
Attempts to be more feminine typically only create another layer of facade which is disconnected from the source of real radiance.
(…and FYI superficial facades of feminine expression tend to attract superficial facades of masculinity in intimate relationships.)